Staying confident in your lane

By Erica Dvorak

My family and I were blessed to stay at a sweet, quaint family resort a few weekends ago.

I was hesitant at first because it had a much different vibe than the places we'd stayed in years before. I don't want to sound pretentious because I know it's an absolute privilege to experience these things, but I had grown accustomed to a certain standard.

As I prepped for the trip (let's be clear–it's a trip, not a vacation when kids are involved), I noticed that many of the usual amenities weren't provided—no shampoo, hand soap, towels, TV, or even internet. On top of that, there was a strict check-in policy.

On our drive up, we stopped at a few places to honor the no-early check-in rule, but we still arrived at the resort an hour and a half early. And sure enough, the lobby was closed.

While waiting, the kids played on the playground, and we walked the grounds. As we strolled, I noticed the intricate care put into every detail—the deep green grass, the vibrant flowers and bushes, and the freshly packed gravel. It was stunning.

When the lobby finally opened, I popped inside to see if we could check in a little early. Once again, I was struck by the attention to detail in the space.

As I waited, I noticed an open door that led to what seemed like someone's home. A sweet woman appeared through the door, ready to help. She explained that her family lived on-site and was available to help when needed.

I was intrigued.

Throughout our stay, I learned they had five children, all girls under the age of 11. I saw them helping their parents with various tasks around the property and joining in on the special bonfire nights with kettle corn and s'mores. It wasn't just a family resort but a true family business.

I grew to appreciate how they served others, but even more so, I appreciated their confidence in knowing who they were and never swaying. They knew their strengths and what they were called to and never wavered—even when someone like me had initial doubts.

Their hours were strict because they prioritized their family. They didn't offer certain amenities because that would detract from what they did best: creating an atmosphere where families could enjoy simple, sweet moments, like gathering around a bonfire or savoring an ice cream cone stacked a mile high with scoops.

By the end of our stay, I was hooked. I had fallen in love with the resort and the family who ran it—people who loved God and served others with such grace. We've already booked our stay for next year—same cabin, same weekend.

It was a beautiful lesson in knowing your gifts, what God has called you to, and not worrying about what others think.

Even when guests arrived a little flustered, like I did at the start of our trip, the family never strayed from their purpose. It was inspiring.

So, dear friend, don't waver. Know your lane, stand confidently in your calling, and trust that those who get it will support you. And for those who don't? That's okay. God has given you your unique talents and dreams for a reason. 

Stay true to where He is leading you, and I promise—people will be intrigued.